tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15363925.post115604181870794786..comments2023-10-24T02:40:03.945-05:00Comments on A Cup of Tea with Friends: Tonight I wanna cryThe Teacup Cottagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13935858087076185741noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15363925.post-1156099843766713322006-08-20T13:50:00.000-05:002006-08-20T13:50:00.000-05:00Hello, I share your feelings and know how hard it ...Hello, I share your feelings and know how hard it is. My husband just got back from his 2nd depolyment and it's still hard the pain you go through with him being gone doesn't go away when they get home. Why? Because you know that there are other wives, hubands that are still seperated and those that never made it home. Be strong, have faith in the Lord and pray! Us Military wives are special, somehow we were placed here to do this job because one knows how tough it is. I will pray for you. <BR/><BR/>Take care =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15363925.post-1156085809929366362006-08-20T09:56:00.000-05:002006-08-20T09:56:00.000-05:00I know so well how you feel and how all this feels...I know so well how you feel and how all this feels like.<BR/>Unfortunately we did not make it....5 years of marriage and 3 years gone in deployments.<BR/>Try not to judge people who's marriages break apart.....it's is often the symptom of something that might have been wrong all along but you loved so much that you were blind to it.<BR/>I know being gone three years, as in our case, wasn't helping any.....some men do change when they come back. Some don't. Mine did and refused to get any kind of help or let me "in"...I couldn't do it. I actually miss the Army life some days. When I left him it was the hardest decision because I still loved him, but he was just not willing to work with us.<BR/>There was a lot grieving over loosing him and lover loosing the Army life, that I had gotten so attached to and loved very much.<BR/>Don't judge please. Marriages fail and it's the most painful thing, next to death, to go through. It doesn't mean people didn't try hard enough.<BR/>You two have a lot of love and respect for one another, so you will be fab!<BR/>One day at a time and the reunion will be just mind-blowing, it almost makes the deployment worthwhile..sounds horrible, but just the elation of being back together was very beautiful as I recall.<BR/>Life goes on for me and I hope to find someone to love again. Now, after the divorce, I am a tad happy that I am removed from all things military, because it is a very tough life for the ones left behind....you are fabulous and brave!Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10436989792381600168noreply@blogger.com